I think there is a fine line between confidence and cockiness. How do you portray confidence without seeming stuck up?
That is where my whole problem with self love began. In high school, I didn't want to become one of those people who thought they were better than everyone else. Who treated others like crap because they believed so. I despised that and I still do. And I took it too far. I wouldn't allow myself to believe that I was good at anything. That I was anything special or worth while. And it stuck.
I've been trying to change my way of thinking and man, it's hard! Especially on days when it seems I fail at everything. I know comparison is the thief of joy. I'm trying to stop it. Try, try, try and try again.
But, there are some things I will say I'm good at:
1. Exercise. I love it. I don't let a physical challenge stop me from trying something new. It may intimidate me but I know, with practice, I get stronger. Being physically strong makes me happy.
2. Baking. I make really good desserts. And it's a good thing I enjoy doing what is mentioned above.
3. I try hard to get a home cooked meal on the table every night.
4. I'm loyal.
And that's all I've got folks. Someday, I may see more in myself but, like Bob said, "Baby steps."
You are simply amazing, my friend! You are sweet and kind and so very thoughtful. Tremendously thoughtful and actually FOLLOWS THROUGH with it. I'm thoughtful, but I have a pesky habit of ignoring my thoughtfulness...;)
ReplyDeleteLove you!
Ditto! To Tawnya that is. You are amazing! I know cause I've had two of your desserts recently and that doesn't even count how cool you are! Just sayin. Oh, and aren't baby steps wonderful. :)
ReplyDeleteI agree with all of the above! Might I add a great friend and fantastic parent?! I'm glad to know you!
ReplyDeleteI confirm the above and especially the desserts:) And all of those things are things that I really struggle with! Well I guess my treats are ok, but everything else is hard for me! We all have things we struggle with and things that we are really good at...and it's great to be able to recognize those! Thanks for your example!!
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